Cutting warning label....
WARNING
....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the
blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily
...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you
think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared
to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you
will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their
hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because
it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it
will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting
..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood
won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified
but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But
you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid
the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars
every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up
your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar
reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why
you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with
an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve
shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs
of SI... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it
..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their
clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so
know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom
floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public
bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really
desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what
it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless
tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or
a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you
will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made
that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.
you have been warned.....